Respect Your Genitals

Let us now turn to a subject that may be extremely uncomfortable for the vast majority of people conditioned on believing that sex is a sin, but it is a subject of the utmost importance to those who love sex.  This is also the vision of someone who always knew how to have a personal view of the subject "out of the box", a person who has always seen this part of the body as not only a "Portal" for pleasure and for the creation of life, something sacred, but also something to be seen with total respect, love and affection: I'm talking about the human genitals.

Society, guided by the direct influence of the church and the idea of the "Original Sin," agreed to treat the genitals as something dirty, after all human secretions have always been treated inappropriately, always with the mark of being something disgusting, not hygienic and improper.  Apart from the ways the human body uses to eliminate the by-products of the digestive processing of liquids and solids, which are in fact something to be discarded, all other secretions from the genitals are automatically associated with something dirty and unhygienic.

However, it is through the sperm coming from the male penis that the spermatozoids responsible for the insemination of the female egg are conducted, and a new physical life is formed from the union of a spermatozoid with the ovum, forming the egg that is fixed in the uterine wall, giving start to a new pregnancy that will develop a human body.  If we analyze this in a more conscious way, since we are dealing with the generation of a new biological life, we are dealing with a set of substances and processes that should be considered sacred, of the most precious process of Divine procreation!

So perhaps it is time to reconsider a series of illogical concepts and to see not only the male sperm, but also the secretions that are produced by the female vagina, either of ejaculatory nature (That's right!  For those who do not know yet, or have not yet tried, the woman is able to ejaculate too!) or simply of lubricating nature.

Particularly, I have always seen the human ability to have sexual relationships as something spectacular and beautiful!  I know that many will still question this, but I have always considered sex an expression of Love, just as it may be a french kiss, a caress on the face, the interlacing of the fingers, the full embrace where all parts of the body get in touch, with an energetic transfer from each chakra, from the heart to the sexual, perhaps even involving the upper and lower chakras.  If we are to consider a moment of penetration of a male genital into a female genital, in a full and unconditional Love relationship, then we will literally have a connection of all the chakras, according to what the Tantric philosophy shows us, occurring the exchange and the maximum energy integration between two beings, during the sexual act.  In the case of a homosexual relationship, this could happen through oral sex, or even anal sex, in the case of men.

As you can see, considering all these points, we must admit that we possess a very high expression of the Sacred between our legs.  Do you understand now why it was decided to treat sex as something prohibited?  Yes, we are talking about a Divine expression!

Due to the need for integration with society, I have to admit that I had moments of doubt, to truly accept the idea of being something wrong and demeaning.  A lot of people today not only go through this, but can even embrace the idea completely and have real disgust for sex!  But considering that I have discussed this topic before, I will not go into the merits.

The fact is that now is the time to start treating our genitals with all the respect and admiration they deserve, as we are dealing with Divine expressions that even many extraterrestrial beings long to enjoy!  Many envy us because we have this ability to reproduce sexually, in the purest expression of Universal Love.  Therefore, we need to review our concepts regarding our own genitals.

Of course, a man who uses drugs to induce an artificial erection for several hours does not really show respect, or even love for his genital, since if that erection lasts for more than 48 hours, the risk of blood clotting inside the cavernous bodies that ensure the erection of the limb is very large, and it may lead to a need to amputate the penis.  Do you understand what I mean?  The penis needs its periods of rest, in which it will lose the erection.  The natural state of a penis is really flaccid and soft, and this should be respected.  If a man is bound to have respect and true love for his body and his genital, he will understand it.  Moreover, sexually relating is not just about penetrating the penis into a woman's vagina.  As will be discussed later, it is necessary to explore a sexuality where the touch is best explored, giving more emphasis to the sensations brought about by this touch throughout the length of the body, and not only on the genital.

In the case of women, it is important to consider that having respect and love for your genital is not limited to regularly attending a gynecologist, to make sure that everything is okay.  Of course this is a part of it, but when I say that you must have Love for your genital, I mean to adopt the habit (and may it really be a habit!) Of masturbating, but not only that.  It is interesting to create a certain intimacy with your genital, without constraints, to see how it behaves in relation to certain types of touch, what kind of sensation can be caused by touching different points of the genital, observing the secretions that are produced, and in what way these secretions can be produced.  You can also use a small mirror to observe the details of your vagina.  In fact, it is interesting to observe the reactions of the whole body during a masturbation, but do not hurry to reach orgasm.  As far as possible, postpone this and note the different sensations that this can produce.  You will end up realizing that a lasting sense of ecstasy may have a more powerful effect than a momentary orgasm!

All right, I know that a woman can have multiple orgasms!  But try to hold that up and simply enjoy that touch for a longer period...  You'll understand what I'm saying!

There is a singular beauty in our genitals, whether male or female.  And there is also a certain similarity between them, which makes everything much more interesting and intriguing.  Anyone who is capable of having this kind of curiosity, will notice how much a clitoris is a miniature version of a penis, but with a much larger number of nerve endings, which makes it much more sensitive to touch.  Observe how much the small lips of the vagina resemble the scrotum where the man's testicles are housed, but in an empty state!  In the case of man, it is interesting to observe the "seam" that exists just below the scrotal sac, indicating where the entrance of the female vagina would be positioned, but in this case the "Y chromosome" takes care of closing it.

Whoever is able to go beyond prejudices and explore in depth the sensitivity to the touch, not only of the genitals, but of the whole body, will notice over time that some soft stimulation that are usually applied to the female genitals in a delicate and light way, can also cause excitement and erection in a penis.  A healthy sexuality should be preferentially centered on the touch and the sensations that this can produce, always taking advantage of everything in a relaxed and meditative way.  Any genital, when caressed with much Love and affection, will respond positively.  In fact, it is possible to produce a powerful orgasm in a male penis if one uses purely subtle touches at certain more sensitive points, provided one has the pre-disposition to find those points.

Our bodies, at about 88% of their constitution, are absolutely the same.  The only differences are the genitalia and breast development in women, even though men also have the structure to do so.  Nature is something truly awesome!  Or should I say that this extraterrestrial biological technology of ours is incredible?!  It really doesn't matter.  What matters is that we have the two polarities, Masculine and Feminine, in all of us, and now it is time to explore this without prejudice and without constraint.

There is an intrinsic beauty in all this, and it is all Divinely beautiful!

Many consider Oral Sex as the most intimate way of relating sexually.  Even more than the french kiss!  And I have to agree.  Of course the penetration makes us feel connected to someone, and that in itself is an incredible sensation.  But Oral Sex is like kissing a Portal of Divine Creation, a true expression of Unconditional Love that can be dedicated to the person you love.  I greatly admire the person who is able to express this kind of affection to a genital, because our genitals deserve to be caressed, idolized and freely appreciated.

Finally, I would add that what has been discussed here, while considering the sacredness of the genitals from the point of view of physical reproduction, also applies to sexual relations between beings of the same sex.  Respect for the partners' bodies and genitals also applies in the situation of a homosexual relationship, whether it is between two men or between two women, and the ability to relate in a Tantric way to each other is also present in the same way.  Only what matters, and what really makes the difference, is that there should be legitimate Unconditional Love between them.