Penetration

Let us now turn to a matter of the utmost importance.  Even because in the study of sexuality for this New Age that begins, nothing is more important than analyzing the aspect that is truly capable of generating a new physical life, a new body where a spirit will use itself to fulfill its incarnation journey.  Therefore I am speaking of something of the highest Divine category, and yet it has become something so common that it becomes difficult to understand how something of such importance could be so diminished.

I am talking about the penetration between genitals, that which connects us sexually, at the level of the sexual chakra, to another individual of the opposite sex with the intention of creating a new life, and at the same time makes us literally one with another being, while we make use of physical bodies to fulfill our incarnational journeys.  Something so sacred and so elevated, and yet it simply became something so basic that it constituted an object of sexual obsession of men and women with respect to human sexuality as we know it today.

Men had become so obsessed with sexual penetration that it made possible to create a niche in the pharmaceutical industry, all of which focused on the manufacture of drugs that would induce artificial erections that could last for hours.  All in the name of an entire sexual performance based on genital penetration for heterosexual relationships, imposed as the undisputed standard by another industry: pornography.  And this pattern of sexual intercourse centered on genital penetration has been fully embraced and advocated by men and women over the past 50 years.

Has anyone ever cared to think about the insanity of it all?  Let's just disregard that we now have new information from our Pleiadian galactic brothers that a woman can have complete control of her own body, and through the power of intention simply choose not to become pregnant, and thus avoid conception of a new, unplanned life.  Has anyone ever come to think of how much they've been playing "Russian Roulette" through all of these years, and also that who would carry the bullet for nine months would be the women?

For those who do not know what a "Russian Roulette" is, it is a deadly game practiced by the Russian mafia, where a 5 or 6-bullet drum revolver was used to challenge a possible mafia traitor, where he was challenged to shoot himself in the head as proof of courage and loyalty, where only one bullet was placed in the drum, and this drum was turned several times so that the exact location of that single bullet was not known.  So the challenger should pull the trigger without knowing for sure if this was his last moment of life, where he would put a bullet in his own head or not!

Such cruelty, isn't it?!  Humanity has always been capable of the worst atrocities, but also of the highest acts of pure Unconditional Love.  We have always been a race of exaggerated limits.  That's what Free Will is for, isn't it?

But let's get back to the sexual issue: this was a joke that was taken very seriously, and regarded as the pattern of sexual intercourse.  How many women, throughout all of these years, have been carrying these "bullets" in the womb for 9 months?  How many lives are generated in unprepared environments to educate and care for these new lives?  How many bewildered lives, of mothers who gave birth without even being married, or even knowing who the child's father was?  How many abortions could have been avoided if people simply used common sense?

Irresponsibility has always prevailed in this environment, but all because of the encouragement of the pornographic industry that has always encouraged penetrative sex as the only valid way of relating sexually.

That is why we see this trivialization of a category of sexual relationship that should be better valued and fully rethought.  Because this has always been done in a totally wrong way as well!

In the world of insane "sexual performance", what has always been defended was how much man could prove to be "macho" enough to penetrate the female genital fiercely and rapidly, as quickly as possible so that it could generate the biggest number of possible orgasms!  For these so-called "sex professionals", genital penetration was like drilling a new oil well into an extremely hard terrain where blows would have to be applied with the drill to dig deeper.  I know that the analogy can be crude and rude, but the idea is really to shock, to give a clear idea of the insanity that a heterosexual sexual relationship has always been.

How many diseased genitals were generated in this process.  And in that way, there was another medical industry that was developed to attend the need to keep these genitals healthy.  In fact, there were two: gynecology and urology!  Medicine has also made much profit with this misrepresentation and trivialization of the genital penetration imposed on human sexuality.

Can you see the manipulation of this matter?  Does Sex really get down to just this?

Genital penetration should be something much more tender and slow.  Just as I have already mentioned the importance of loving our bodies unconditionally, I have also spoken of the importance of having deep respect for our genitals.  But not only that, it becomes even more important to have deep respect for this form of sexual interaction by knowing that it is something that enables us to create a new physical life, therefore something of an immeasurable Divine dimension!

First of all, I must say that genital penetration must be something to be undertaken only after the couple, male and female...

Allow me one important remark: This certainly could not apply to homosexual couples.  Except, perhaps, male homosexual couples!  Have much love to your anus, please... Your anus is certainly as important as your genital!

But let's return to the subject: a man and a woman should only undertake genital penetration after a few months of building up their intimacy, both physical and spiritual.  After having already built a very big complicity, to be totally at ease with their bodies and shared nudity, after having already divided many orgasms, either through exchange of masturbation or through oral sex.  What I mean is that, they must be fully integrated intimately, without having any remnants of discomfort with each other, and have built an Unconditional Love, a mutual respect, an absolute integration with each other.

I guess it is quite clear here that I don't refer to casual sex!

Only then, this genital penetration should be considered.  And then, what really counts is your will!  You will decide the best position for this, how intense it should be, what is the perfect speed to reach orgasm, etc.  Give it a try, it's the best thing you can do!  Explore some pompoarism, or maybe just feel yourselves connected...  Remember the rules of Tantra: be present at the moment!  Taste it , observe the sensations, feel each other very carefully.  Everything must be slow, loving and very pleasurable.

In addition, just do this as an expression of Unconditional Love: to yourselves, your bodies and your genitals.