Massage

It is not something that is commonly associated with the culture of western society.  It usually refers to some specific type of therapy for the treatment of muscular pain or other therapeutic methods, or when it is associated with a sexual relationship, it is confined to clandestine spaces where the so-called "sex workers" attend.  In countries where Tantric culture is fully disseminated and accepted, massages are an important part of the sexual relationship as a whole, because it will work in relaxing the body, preparing it to remain present at the moment, allowing each touch to be lived intensely, producing a sensation of unequaled ecstasy, and a better use of the sexual energy as a whole.

The fact is that our hands are the most important tools in the process of manipulating sexual energy.  All the power that can be provided through the touch, the caresses, the grips, the friction of the hands with any part of our body constitutes a powerful way to produce unlimited pleasure and ecstasy.

Of course a massage can also be produced using other parts of our body, such as our arms, legs, feet, abdomen, but it is the hands that will guarantee, most of the time, the effectiveness of these massages.

Strong and firm hands can promote a universe of sensations, not only through subtle touches, but also through pinching, soft pinching, gentle touches with fingers, between fingers, holding, loosening, scrubbing, rubbing, and each gesture of these constitutes a form of energy transmission that a person can promote in the person being massaged.  This can all promote relaxation, as it can develop an accumulation of energy that gradually grows, culminating in the maximum burst of orgasm.

It is important to consider that, in the case of a sexual relationship, a person who arrives with a latent horny feeling, on the verge of the explosion, will hardly be able to really enjoy a sexual relationship, because this person will most likely climax very quickly and almost instantaneously, much more by the anxiety generated by the expectation of the moment, than by the sexual act itself.  This is the main reason why in the West the vast majority of people cannot have true pleasure, or even achieve ecstasy in a sexual relationship.  Sex has become such a rare and unusual event, due to all the repression instituted, all the mystique involved in the act, which when it happens becomes an event of so much expectation, so little natural expression, that promotes this situation of extreme anxiety and not relaxation.

Massage becomes an important tool to solve this problem, promoting first a relaxation of the partners involved, a greater integration due to the intimacy that can involve this powerful exchange of caresses, working the energies, removing possible blockages, promoting a redirection of energies, aiming at a "controlled explosion", allowing the partners to take better advantage of the act, as well as allowing them to be fully present at the moment, starting from a relaxed state and gradually reaching a state of climax, making the sexual act something much more enjoyable.

Of course it is important to consider that the partners involved have already done all the previous work of self-acceptance of their bodies, realizing a self-knowledge of themselves, being totally at ease with their nakedness, being fully open to the touch and pleasures that a sexual relationship, and in the particular case, a delicious massage can provide to each one, otherwise the experience will not be useful.  As I have said before, there is a continuity between the texts developed here, so none of this can be fully utilized if one has not yet learned to seek his sexuality within himself!

It all starts with the hands.  Even if we consider the act of masturbation, self-love, this can be better explored if instead of using mechanical acts of stimulation in order to achieve rapid orgasm, we use slower massages in the genital area, working at the sensitivity of the skin, using a variety of touches, changing the position of the hands, holding in different forms, maybe using the tip of your fingers, using not only a gentle friction but of varying intensity, slight twisting, rubbing the palm of both hands instead of holding the penis with one hand.  In addition, at the same time, stimulate other parts of the body, in addition to the genital.

Masturbation is an art, and it is up to each of you to invent your style of massaging.  The same can be considered with regard to women, always changing the touch of the hands in the female genital, exploring every detail of this genital, be the vulva, the small lips, the entrance of the vagina, the G spot, the clitoris, the clitoris hood , everything must be carefully explored, calmly, using different touches, massaging, groping, using circular, lateral motions, and always looking to observe what promotes more pleasure.  And of course, also trying to stimulate other parts of the body, besides the genitals.

This all moves powerful sexual energies, and can provide a lot of ecstasy if you are able to discipline yourself and forget about the orgasm a bit.  Concentrate only on feeling that touch, on feeling the reactions of our body to each different touch, every pressure, every friction, every grip.  That's what makes the Tantric act!  Be present at the moment, experiencing every sensation that can be provided by these powerful hands that manipulate and generate these energies.  This is what will provide the state of permanent ecstasy, which can be much more powerful than several isolated orgasms.  And when it comes to something that is exchanged between partners, because it is an energy exchange between both, this only widens and makes the experience even more transcendental.

Knowing how to play with our body, or even with our partner's body, is what makes sexual intercourse an art, a very powerful erotic experience, and a truly Divine state of ecstasy.

I think Adam and Eve lived for doing only this, all the time!  What else can be done in paradise, except to live in ecstasy, loving one another, letting God the Father / Mother and the planet take care of the rest?  Who knows...  Maybe all this love energy generated in a sexual relationship by living Gods also was used to suppress Mother Gaia with energy?  Perhaps this will become a service provided to Mother Gaia, to generate creative sexual energy?

Believe me: in the ancient temples of Inanna, in the time of the priestesses of ancient Egypt, these sexual acts were true sacred rituals that promoted the fertility of the planet!

This is just to get an idea of ​​how powerful this is!