The Naked Body

Em Português

But let us now turn to a simple fact that is truly beneficial to your sex life: You will only be capable of having a full and pleasurable sexuality if you can feel totally at ease with your nudity!

How many people insist on keeping themselves dressed, even during sex, because they cannot feel comfortable with their nude bodies.  They can either stay dressed, or they keep themselves at dim light rooms, or they do everything very quickly so they can get dressed as soon as possible. None of these people can have real sexual pleasure because they are extremely uncomfortable without clothes, because of the constant pressures of society to keep them dressed.

It is necessary to learn to feel comfortable with your nakedness, to get used to the absence of clothes.

If not, let's see: Has anyone ever seen an animal feel comfortable with clothes?  No animal can feel at ease wearing clothes, even because they have been born naturally covered with hair, which serves to keep them warm, so as not to lose the warmth of the body necessary for their survival.

The Body

Em Português

It is extremely impressive to observe that, in the XXI century, this matter remains so controversial!  We have extreme difficulty in facing our body naturally, perhaps because society and the media, whether television or magazines, have sexualized it so much.  Our naked body has become something offensive, aggressive, scandalous, and even immoral!

But leaving the controversy aside, I want to address the issue in another way.

Our body is something of incomparable beauty and perfection. As Divine creations that we are, we are talking about organic machines of extreme precision, of several integrated systems that work together for the purpose of sustaining life. They are the circulatory, respiratory, digestive, nervous and filtering systems, all organized by a central system of ultra sophisticated intelligence.  As Gods that we are, we should not expect anything less, but perfection!

But why do we not appreciate it? Why cannot we love, accept and even idolize our bodies?