The Preliminaries Scam

It is incredible to see how long this brainwashing that has been done about sex has been creating such distortions that have been perpetuated indefinitely.  The very simple word, SEX, has gained such a connotation that it had to be rejected by the great majority of those who have agreed that this is an original sin.  That never made any sense!

But society as a whole has agreed to believe that SEX, or sexual intercourse, only occurs when the penis penetrates the vagina.  Everything else is made up of so called "Preliminaries".

Has anyone ever wondered about the insanity of this?  So lesbians, or homosexual women, do not have sexual relationships at all?  Don't they have the right to do this?  All they ever do is only preliminary, nothing else?  And what is the meaning of all this culture of praise created around the male sexual organ?  Is this really so wonderful, so indispensable?

Much misinformation has been created about an issue that was never allowed to be approached in familiar circles, an absolute taboo.  But what is the truth about it all?

Let's look at the definitions of some words, just to try to turn matters into a more simple understanding.

What is a Relationship? Let's start here.

According to the Cambridge Dictionary, we have the following definitions:

1 - Relationship noun [ C ] (CONNECTION) - the way in which two things are connected:

Scientists have established the relationship between lung cancer and smoking.

2 - Relationship noun [ C ] (FRIENDSHIP):

a) The way in which two or more people feel and behave towards each other:

He has a very good relationship with his uncle.

b) A close romantic friendship between two people, often a sexual one:

Have you had any serious relationships in the past year?

c) A love/hate relationship - a relationship in which you have feelings of love and hate for someone or something.

3 - Relationship noun [ C ] (FAMILY CONNECTION) - the family connection between people:

The judge asked the witness what the relationship was between her and the victim.

OK, so let's stick to the second definition, letter b.  Going further more now, let us see the definition of the word "sexual":

Sexual - adjective

1 - Sexual - adjective (SEX):

a) Relating to the activity of sex:

Most people remember their first sexual experience.

b) A sexual relationship, sexual assault/harassment, formal sexual intercourse (= the act of having sex).

c) Sexual orientation/preference (= whether someone chooses to have sex with men, women, or both).

d) Relating to the production of young living things by the combining of a cell from a male with a cell from a female:

sexual reproduction

sexual adjective (MALE/FEMALE) - Relating to being male or female:

Sexual equality will not be achieved until there is more provision for childcare.

Some steps have been taken towards ending sexual discrimination (= treating people unfairly because of which sex they are).

OK, so in this case we will be using the letter "a" definition.

Let's state this: Sexual relationship is a sexual exchange between two individuals.  It is an exchange of caresses, kisses, hugs, a whole set of forms of affective expressions between two individuals, regardless of being of the same sex or different genres.  At least I'd rather see it that way!

But this leads us to broaden the universe of what can be characterized as Sexual Relationship, doesn't it?  A simple French kiss would already be a sexual exchange by itself, seeing it this way.  How many have not been "Burning hot" during a tasty kiss on the mouth?  Who doesn't like it?  You can start simply by touching the lips.  Then you begin to open the mouth more, beginning to include the tongue that at first is only touched timidly.  But it just keeps getting warmer, and warmer, evolving...

Sexual relationship has already started there!  Sex is already in full swing!  Why call it "Preliminaries"?

Definitely, two women may not have the male genital organ for penetration, but they will certainly trade orgasms, even more than on a heterosexual relationship, or even comparing to a sexual relationship between a couple of male homosexuals!

After all, isn't this the whole idea of ​​the so-called "Sexual Relationship"?!

In a world where sex would be seen with naturalness, masturbation, or the sexual relationship we have with our body, would be the main and most important sexual relationship to be performed, because it is at this moment that we become aware of our body and how we can simply feel through touch, mainly on our genital, no matter which one.  This would be the preparation for future two-way sex, but it's already a form of self-made sex!

So you find a partner, either the same sex or the opposite sex, but simply someone for whom you feel an affection and an absolute trust, someone with whom you feel the desire to share your intimacy, that what is your most precious treasure, that is your body, your temple.  This other person also wants to share his/her body with you.

You already know how to give orgasms to yourself, so you begin to get to know each other, and you begin to reveal how you like to be touched intimately.

But of course when you start to share your energies, things surely start getting more intense, since they are two partners in love, exchanging their energies!  And that is what the so-called "Sexual Relationship" is all about.

We may not yet live in this ideal world, but it is up to us all to build this New World.  But make it clear that there are no Preliminaries, but purely and simply a "Sexual Relationship" that develops between two souls who are deeply and very intimately connected.

Obs.: Preliminaries = Foreplay, but I guess this is quite clear here.  It is just to make sure there are no doubts about it left.