This is a subject that has been already very
much in evidence in the 70's and 80's, after the great sexual revolution of the
60's and the entire Hippie movement that followed it. Even throughout the 1980s, many still dreamed
of finding their Soul Mate.
In the following decades this was discredited,
for only now, starting in 2012, the subject comes back to the fore in numerous
channeled texts that have been published in various blogs.
But instead of entering into the merits of
defining what are Soul Mates, I intend here to make an analysis of what has
been the human behavior with regard to sex, and then explain the main reason why
this subject is coming back.
We have been speaking throughout the last texts
about the new aspects that are being outlined for the Sexuality of this New Age
that begins, and of course we could not refrain from talking about the
essential aspect of how to start a new relationship, regardless of whether we
are talking about a heterosexual or homosexual relationship.
Throughout all these years, we have always
discussed how we should "conquer" a new Love. It is important to emphasize the term
"conquering", because that's where lies most of the problem of the
dynamics of all relationships, and the main reason the vast majority fails.
Many self-help books have been published to
help men and women, trying to show them the best way to "conquer" a
new Love. Questions such as "What
do women like best about men?" Or "What do men like best about
women?" Or "How do you become an infallible conqueror?" All this
has always been intended to help us, once again, CONQUER a new Love.
But why do I insist so much on emphasizing the
term CONQUER?
Let's look at the meaning of the term. Through the Dictionary, we have the following
explanation:
TO CONQUER (verb)
The English were
conquered by the Normans in 1066.
Take a careful look at the meaning of the
word. The idea of possession is clearly
understood here. Even if you consider
other expressions, like "to Get a Girlfriend", or "to have a
Girlfriend", you can still see the idea of possession on it.
Can you understand my point of view? Conquering a new Love has always contained an
idea of ownership, of possessing someone. And the biggest problem is that not always, or
rather rarely, there was the consideration of knowing if there was
correspondence of this Love. Every
relationship was always initiated based on the "Desire" to possess
someone, whether by physical characteristics, physical beauty, or psychological
characteristics that we could not develop in ourselves, but we admired on the
desired person! Or even for financial
reasons, for the desire to have a better life or more comfort in life.
Many different motivations, but the idea of
ownership was constant. And in a forced
relationship like this, where one expressed Love for what he wanted, and tried
everything to convince the desired person, whether by demonstration of strength
and power, or even by the simple conviction that it was someone who was worth
having a chance, this would always end in relationships where there was no
correspondence of True Love, but rather demonstration of "Power over"
someone. Someone always ended up
dominating the relationship, and the dominated party simply had to obey, or
even change the personality to suit the relationship, according to the will of
the dominant party, so that the dominated would never lose the "Idolized Person".
In the matter of a relationship that was
established on the basis of a demonstration of power, in general of the
masculine part of the relationship, what always followed was a relationship of
Tyranny on the dominated part, a relation much more of fear than that of Love
itself. And the dominated part remained
subdued in the hope that their "Love" (in this case, it was always a
lot more of a lack of self-esteem than of real Love) would "Heal it"
in some way, and that through the transforming power of "Love", it
would change over time.
How many abusive relationships were built based
on these principles of conquest...
But let's finally consider the great Truth of
Love: It just happens!
I've seen a lot of people say, "After you
become a friend of a girl, you do not have to think of dating her anymore."
Why not? If Sexual Energy, which is a Sacred, Divine
Energy, and which is part of all of us, why can't this be born of a
relationship of friendship?
Clearly, we will continue to select our
partners according to the standard of beauty that each of us carries with us. Each one knows very well what attracts him the
most, regardless of any pattern of beauty that can be established by the
society, although this is something that will surely cease to exist with time
and evolution. Beauty, as a whole, is
still something that attracts us and enchants us, and this does not have to
stop being. But unions must be born of
simple friendship, always!
The whole thing is much simpler than we have always
imagined. We, as Human Beings
manipulated and controlled by society, are the ones who have always complicated
everything!
We should simply be who we truly Are, and we
should Be openly and freely, in a way that everybody all around us may see who
we really Are.
Of course for this to happen we must get to know
ourselves deeply, and this should be our number one priority. Self-knowledge is the key to everything, and
that is what will make all the difference from now on.
Our sick society has always taught us to
protect ourselves and to hide from everything and everyone, and only to show
ourselves to those who we truly wanted to conquer, those who were truly
worthwhile. But for this New Age
centered on Unconditional Love, this has to be different, there will no longer
be the need for so much protection, since we will all be vibrating in the
higher frequencies of Unconditional Love. Therefore, we will simply need to just Be!
The relationships of Soul Mates will become the
new pattern of relationship in the New Age purely and simply because we will
worry about simply being who we really Are, without fear or shame, and also
because we will be overflowing with Unconditional Love. As the Christ has always said, we must love
ourselves Unconditionally and totally, before we can be able to love someone
else. That will be a law from now on. Our sexuality will be overflowing too, since
it will be born from within each one of us, and not be sought out. Masturbation should become a habit, since
"Loving yourself" will become a daily routine.
Since we get concerned with simply being, and
expressing it openly to all around us, it will attract souls who identify with
what we express, and it is from these new relations of friendship that we will
be creating with everyone around us that future loving relationships will be
created.
That is why it is so important to understand
the concept of "Soul Mates" because they symbolize the future of
loving relationships.
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