Natural Sexuality

It is not exactly a new concept, since many couples who view sexuality quite naturally already practice this, but much more an idea of how sexuality should be treated.

In the world of modern society, considering couples who get married and begin to share a life together, sex, as time goes by and with the pressures of the day to day routine, becomes a "scheduled event".  What used to happen spontaneously during the courtship, in the moments that the couple could get together and have a moment of privacy alone, after they move in together it becomes a rare event.

This has always been a very strange thing, because in the dating phase many usually imagine that after marriage the thing will become something frequent and natural.  But in fact the reality turns out to be something totally different, because then begins the activities considered "chillers", such as the responsibilities to keep the house "in shape", work to pay the bills of consumption, food purchases, cleaning supplies and other things needed to keep the house clean, to wash the clothes, to wash the dishes, to fix the shower, to repair the leak, etc., etc., etc.

For those who have not yet had the experience of getting married... Believe me, it is not a "Bed of Roses"!

And when children are born, then...

It only gets worse!  But there are couples who are not interested in getting married, or even experiencing a wedding, and they just try an experience of living together.  Over time it is obvious that the whole thing tends to become a "marriage" as well, because the responsibilities do not cease to be present!  But couples who decide to just experience a life together tend to lead a more relaxed life, and so they can let go of certain responsibilities, so they can enjoy life a little bit more.

Sexuality should be something totally spontaneous, not something with date and schedule.  Expressing Love through sexual intercourse should be something as spontaneous as exchanging kisses, hugging or even caressing.

When we begin to lead life in a more spontaneous and joyful way, we start to have another view of the thing.  If we have an intimate environment of coexistence, why not walk naked during the day around our house?  Curtains exist to keep outside looks absent.  If it is cold outside, just close the windows and turn on the heating, if the cold gets too intense.  Besides, our bodies will thank us for being able to count on the extra time without any clothes.  This helps the body to breathe, recharge and stay perfectly healthy.  Genitals also need "Fresh Air"!

Our bodies are capable of defending themselves against many external agents, such as mites, germs, bacteria or any other being that can be considered a threat to our health.  So try to relax and enjoy your bodies!  Besides, it's always better to change a hug where the full extent of our skin is in contact with the skin of the other.  Activities such as hanging around watching a movie, or even dancing naked to the sound of a song (especially if it's "cheek to cheek"!) or even while preparing meals in the kitchen!  It can all be so much more fun if you are truly capable of sharing your intimacy.

And in the meantime, maybe an oral sex in the living room, a hot intercourse on the chair of the dining table, or even on the table, a nice kiss from behind while the mistress prepares the coffee.

If we could live in a perfect society, totally centered on Unconditional Love, with full acceptance of the differences and absent from fears or prejudices, Human Sexuality would be a continuation of the child's play, when we used to have the innocence of walking around naked, totally relaxed, having total pleasure of being absent from the masks that constitute the clothes, in an atmosphere of total freedom and sincerity.

Sex should be an innocent child's play practiced by adults.  We must rescue our childish innocence in the expression of our sexuality, just like the moment when a boy and a girl appear naked, facing each other, and they begin to explore the differences of their bodies.  As a boy who begins to touch his genital affectionately, which gives him comfort, pleasure, and suddenly he realizes that this affection, that gentle energy that he applies to his genital begins to make him erect, and he starts to explore this erection, starts playing with it.  And he likes to feel his genital in this state, and feels like sharing it with someone.

The same can be considered of the girl who begins to caress her genital, and begins to realize that she is becoming more humid, and she keeps on enjoying that sensation.  And she feels that her vagina begins to expand, or else it contracts, and she begins to like those variations.  And she goes exploring this in different ways, exploring also touching her breasts, her nipples, and then she begins to feel different sensations.

Until both boy and girl decide to touch each other.  And they begin to realize that everything begins to get more intense, even more delicious.

That's what it's all about, what I call "Natural Sexuality".  A rescue of our childish innocence, always having in mind the pleasure and fun of touching our bodies in varied ways and having fun with our bodily fluids, if sneaking with them.  Many pornographic films give us suggestions on how to play with sex, in different places, different circumstances, different positions.  It just needs to be clear that Sex, in real life, does not need to follow a typical "script" of pornographic movies!  Remember that pornographic movies need to show, within 30 minutes to one hour, a huge range of situations and positions that may be interesting to try or not, but there is no need to do all these positions at a short period of time.  Pornographic films serve to inspire us, but not to be faithfully imitated!  It's all done in a very "cartoonish" way.

Just try masturbating each other while showering in the shower, or even in that delightful whirlpool.  Then later, who knows, an oral sex under the table while he checks his emails on the office computer.  You can then roll the mistress on the dining table if it is prepared to bear the weight and vibration of the moment and apply a delicious oral sex on her genital as the "Main Dish".  And if the couple is more daring, how about trying that sexy penetration in the hammock that hangs on the porch, running the nice risk of being watched by the neighbors?!  A little exhibitionism can spice up the thing even more.

Make up your games!  Everything is allowed in the game of Love.  But of course, always trying to respect the limits of each other, without anyone feeling bad about what is being done.

It is worth remembering that this goes for heterosexual and homosexual couples.  Many female homosexual couples demonstrate this type of spontaneous sexual intercourse, including bedtime.  It can be very interesting to sleep totally naked, with just a good comforter covering their bodies to keep them warm, allowing the couple to hug or touch each other in their sleep.  And who knows, maybe this will make you want to play a little in the middle of the night?  Anything is possible, and I assure you it will not be a "Bad Sleep" night!