Polyamory and Promiscuity

Freedom.  This is a concept that has never been fully understood by mankind.

After all, what does it really mean, to be free in a world that controls us all the time?  Who can truly say that is fully aware of what is "Freedom"?

"I am free!  I have my car, my house, my professional life, I am successful, I do not need anyone."

Are you sure?  Can you stop paying the taxes you need to pay for a year?  Will you still have your car, or your house, if you just do not pay these taxes?  And the mortgage?  If you fail to pay for the benefits of the car, can you still keep it?

"Ah, but I live for rent!"  If you fail to pay the rent for a month, what happens?  What if you fail to pay for it forever?

And what about your professional life?  Even though you may already be a boss, a manager, aren't you supposed to follow the company rules?  Can you disrespect, or even disobey your boss?  If you let productivity drop, will you get your bonus?  And what about that promised promotion?  Why does it never come?  Don't you have to follow the rules lawfully?  Are your subordinates really subordinating?  Ain't you also charged to keep them lawfully enslaved as well?  Ain't you a slave to this rule?

"At least I'm not married, I can sexually relate to whoever I want!"

Is that what you call freedom?  And what about the rules for a successful flirt?  And if it does not work, do you "win" your prey?  Or is it going to be another sexless night?  And even if you do succeed, because you are an infallible conqueror, will it satisfy yourself?  You can satisfy yourself that night, but what about the next night?  New hunting, new conquest.  Isn't this an addiction?  This power of conquest is addictive!  Isn't that being a slave to an addiction?

But I am willing to go even further...

The next morning you woke up feeling strange.  Let's say this is happening two days after you've connected with that wonderful woman you met at a nightclub, had an immediate chemistry, went out to a motel and had an incredible night of unforgettable sex.  Just like you both had planned, there was no intention of compromise, each one should go to their respective houses.  But she dawned complaining about life, complaining about everything and everyone, and everyone that worked with her found it strange, since she was always a super high-spirited, super sweet person, and she was totally different that day.  And you woke up calmer, more cheerful, somewhat optimistic, which everyone at your work found strange too, since you usually complain about your salary, how much you do not get recognized.  Of course there were people thinking "He's in love! He has to be!" But you do not even know her phone number, and you do not even know how to look up for her.  Of course you think of her!  But what are you going to do now?  How do you find her again?

The energy exchange is inevitable, and with each new experience, every new "casual" sexual relationship, more energy is exchanged, and over time you notice that you are feeling more and more depressed, with a feeling of emptiness that you can't explain, since you have always been full of life, but the tangle of energies is so complex that you no longer know who you are.  You find yourself trapped in this tangle that you cannot explain how it originated, but you cannot get rid of it.  And you are still crazy to go out and find some new person for a new experience!  "I guess I just need sex to get better!"

Is this Freedom?

Promiscuity has never been synonymous with freedom, since with each new "casual" sexual relationship, a new energy bond is created with that person, even if there is no loving involvement, but it will remain with you for a long time.

"How much time?"

Days.  Months.  Years.  A lifetime, perhaps?  We are considering people who are addicted to this kind of energy tangle.  The more, the merrier!  And that is addictive.  And that enslaves.  Extroverts, in particular, are the most susceptible to this, as they feed on the energies of the environment and the people around them.  For them, this is a must, and they go crazy if they miss a single night out, at any weekend.

Introverts, on the other hand do not feel this need, but in the world we live in, being introverted seems to be some kind of sickness.  "What's your problem?  You have to go out, you have to enjoy life!"  But introverts are energy donors, and such an environment, like nightclubs, leaves them totally depleted and powerless.  And the only way to recharge is by being alone, they need it.  In general, they don't get into promiscuity because they know they are too emotional to simply relate sexually and just pretend nothing happened the night before.  They are empathetic beings, this cannot work with them.

But promiscuity was a creation, a media propaganda to convince people that sex is healthy, it's instinctive, it's essential, it's basic and it's life, and everyone should meet their needs. "Just remember to use a condom!" The condom industry thanks the support, they also have bills to pay.  Oh, and the beverage industry, the nightclub DJs, the nightclub owners, an entire infrastructure already created to fuel promiscuity.

Sex is a necessity, everyone needs it!

But apart from the discussion of the whole system that has already been put together to support this, we also have the question of one's ego.  The media have already taught everyone, and psychologists have confirmed this, that "love" hurts.  Therefore, everyone must protect themselves from hurting themselves again and avoid stable affective relationships.  Casual relationships are healthier, no one gets hurt at all.  "Just do not forget the condom, huh?  Think of the others!  Think of the condom industry workers, they will thank you!"

I have another name for "EGO".  It's called FEAR.  To protect the ego is to be very afraid.  Any sense of protection denotes fear.  We have always been kept vibrating very low in the energies of fear, and this has always been purposeful.  And after all, the media has already convinced everyone that "love" means "to own someone", so protect yourself from it!

That was never Love, but attachment.  And yes, this is bad!  It ends with the freedom to Be of each one.

But what is freedom anyway?  Is anyone free here in this story?

"Oh no!  Everything is different now!  Today, we have the Polyamory, where we have the freedom to love whoever we want to love, and that is Love!"  Are you sure?

Love for whom?  Are you having love for the right person?  And let's say you actually have affection for the people with whom you have sexual relationships.  You respect each other's freedom to sexually relate to others, even support it!  They find it lovely to see the person you love being loved by other people.  This is altruistic, isn't it?

And what about the energies?  How many energies do you think you have absorbed in this whole story?  How many "lives" are already intertwined with yours?  Are you sure you know all the people whose lives are already entwined with yours?  And who are you, really?  Can you still answer that question?  Because at this point, John is already mixed with Maria, Anna, Robert, Richard, Andrea, Ursula...  Is Ursula really a woman?

But do not forget the condom!

I know I'm being extremely sarcastic in this text, but I think the theme is indeed difficult, and I'm just trying to make it more "palatable".  The truth is that Love, the one with the capital "L", universal energy, was never "The" problem, but the "distortion" of this feeling is, and this was another brainwashing sponsored by the system, which always took advantage of this whole situation, and always aimed to "cultivate and suck" our sexual energy to attend the negative energy consumption of Reptilians, which have already been discussed in previous texts.  The whole assembled structure of bars, nightclubs, motels, everything that moves the nights of any city in the world was designed to unbalance our sexual energy, which is sacred, and extract it to feed these beings.

Slavery has been promoted in every possible way, as it has been discussed in previous texts, and there is absolutely no difference between promiscuity and polyamory.

OSHO, the great Indian philosopher, made it very clear that true freedom comes from solitude, in being at ease with oneself, loving oneself, preserving your own unique and singular energy.  Love is our essence, so when we give in to the fear of loving, we are actually blocking our own essence, and that always brings us consequences.  Depression may be the greatest one of them.

Periods of celibacy between relationships are necessary to re-establish our energy balance, and it is a preparation for the next relationship to be adopted, and that serves purely for our own growth and evolution.  And of course, to keep the loving energy always flowing!  But we only need to make that exchange with just one person.

If there is something wrong that can truly block our spiritual and sexual evolution, this is called "Marriage".  May in this "New Age" that begins (Many have said that this term is beaten, but I like to use it anyway), the new marriages be instituted purely and simply by the bonds of Love, by the heart, and not by laws, because we never really need them, as luminous and Divine beings that we are.  And may this relationship last for as long as it should last, for the only thing that is eternal, and will always be, is our existence.